• Nobody@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    All this time and energy wasted on chatbots, cancer research, and what have you. What we need is a universal robotic liver, so that we can all stay drunk all the time with no consequences.

  • SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz
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    4 months ago

    I only drink a couple times per year. I’m typically pretty introverted and quiet, but once I’ve had alcohol, people keep telling me that I’m so friendly and fun and how they’d like to have some drinks with me again.

    Dangerous.

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      4 months ago

      Thankfully, I hate how bloated and disgusting I feel when I drink, otherwise I’d probably be an alcoholic like my mom, who died of alcohol poisoning after being the life of the party for years until it got so bad she wasn’t fun anymore.

      Shit is bleak out there, no one gives a shit if you have a drinking problem because it’s so normalized. Then when you need help and are pushing everyone away, there’s barely any support unless you have money. And AA programs have their own issues.

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        4 months ago

        I’ve had people bring up my completely legal, never-abused, responsibly used, doctor-prescribed medication out of “concern”, while my then-partner would down a couple 40s before noon and no one would fucking bat an eye.

        Shit’s fucked. Alcoholism is so normalized and socially accepted that folks just treat it like a fun quirk.

    • kakes@sh.itjust.works
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      4 months ago

      My family has a history of the bad kind of alcoholism, so I didn’t even try alcohol until my mid-twenties.
      I was very introverted at the time, and I have to admit, I loved the person I was when I was drunk.

      Fortunately for me, I had the willpower and the awareness to realize that just because I liked it didn’t mean I needed more. For about 10 years, I drank socially, in moderation, maybe about once a month on average.

      I’ll admit it did get a bit dicey in University, where I had a drink most days with my friends after class, but I very quickly dropped that habit after graduating.

      Not that it’s relevant (is any of this story?), but I recently discovered I have an issue with my liver - presumably not alcohol related - and as a precaution I’ve just stopped drinking entirely. Fortunately I’m a lot more “extroverted” these days, but I’ll admit I do miss it sometimes.

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        4 months ago

        Mine has a history of un-fun alcoholism, as well. Apparently it was used to self-medicate our other family history of depression. 🎉

        I’d drink more if I had folks to go out with, but I’ve cut off a lotta people in the last few years.

        It seems that social pressure to drink kind of doesn’t go away as you age, huh?

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          4 months ago

          Honestly, since weed was legalized here, my entire social group pretty much entirely ditched alcohol in favor of cannabis. Definitely makes it easier for me to not feel pressured to drink, thankfully.

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      4 months ago

      I started doing 1 or 2 drinks pretty much every evening during the pandemic, and more during the weekend, and much more when going out. I didn’t really see any issue at all, but very gradually I became sadder, slower, less motivated.

      Of course I didn’t notice that until I’d stopped for a few weeks. Now I can’t think of a single reason to drink. At this point in my life, it takes more than it gives.

      I feel like it’s probably always been that case, but I doubt I would have thought so as a young man.

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    4 months ago

    With enough practice you probably trick your brain and be extraverted (to some extent) without alcohol. Or at least that’s something I tell myself.

    My biggest progress is not attending language lesson while being after a beer or two 😁.

  • Shadowedcross@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    I only really like myself and how I behave when I’m drunk, I’m much more outgoing and confident, not to mention it just makes me feel good. I feel like if I had less self control, I could very easily become addicted, but as it is I don’t drink that often, and when I do drink I don’t drink much.