It was and still is hard - or at least tedious - for me as a software developer to find out how to use the fediverse and lemmy. I can’t imagine how annoying it must be for a normal user. The one thing I really liked about reddit, is that you can find a well written guide for everything, often pinned at the top of a specific sub. Is there something like that anywhere?
I just wrote a semi-deep dive into Lemmy! https://open.substack.com/pub/domilleswondrousworks/p/the-emergence-of-lemmy-as-an-alternative?utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=email
If it is missing anything, or if you have questions, please let me know and I would be happy to update the post!