No judgement here please! Everyone should be free to speak their truth.

    • With our sex life, maybe, but she’s an incredible woman in every other way, so you take the rough with the smooth. We’re both reletively young so things might change as we get old.

      I live in hope. Probably futile hope, but we’ll see!

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            1 year ago

            It’s probably not hopeless. After 20 years together, we kinda started out where you are and are having more and better sex than before. She probably has hang-ups. Try adding more dirty talk and get the communication going in the heat of the moment rather than before or after. Start as tame as you have to and see where it goes after a while.