For me, it’s messing up/ doing something socially unacceptable or hurting someones feelings without noticing. In my life I’ve done this many times, and the times it happened the worst were when I was having a lot of fun, and had no idea I was doing something wrong. I’m the king of miscommunication.

I had a long history of this, especially as a kid, and because of it for a long time whenever I was having a lot of fun in a social situation I’d suddenly remember past times when I messed up, and then I’d go down in a self-doubt spiral and it’d kill my fun and start acting weird.

  • Ness [he/him]@hexbear.netM
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    4 years ago

    that living in the deep south and having awful social skills will lead to me either regretting trying to be friendly to 99% of the people i interact with on a daily basis or lead to me to being lonely until i can move places

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    4 years ago

    That I’m going to be alone for the rest of my life. It’s literally my only goal in life rn.

    Doesn’t help the guy I really like doesn’t want a relationship :(

    But also what you said, 100%.