Want to try to reboot this comm a bit, it was never THAT active but I want to make a real effort to try to build it up anyway! So here’s a small discussion thread
What’s something that’s small and fun that you enjoy about polyamory? There are lots of big obvious things but the longer I am polyamorous the more I come to really enjoy the small things too.
For me the silly thing that I thought of that inspired this post is that because I’m polyamorous I have a weird amount of people who actually enjoy my silly DJ sets that I create and ask when the next one is coming. It’s just such a small silly support that brings me lots of joy.
Takes the pressure off to be 100% compatible or sharply define each relationship. Each of us has more room to be who we are and flow with the changes
Having more than one bed is nice :3
Being able to try different types of pillows and then choosing what works best for you. Super underrated!
One thing I appreciate about polyamory is that you learn to love on new ways from different people. It can really improve the way you show appreciation for existing partners. The different perspectives, tastes in music, hobbies etc open up a whole world to me that would be otherwise unavailable.
There is so much more but I don’t want to write a wall of text lol