• bluemellophone@lemmy.world
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    3 months ago

    Yep, dad to three kids. I can’t imagine not having newborn snuggles. In many ways it is 100% beneficial for the baby. When babies snuggle close to a chest, it is often a signal to eat. Sometimes they can get frustrated when mom does it 1) when they don’t want to eat but are being smooshed into a boob that smells like breast milk or 2) when they want to eat but mom doesn’t want to or can’t feed at that moment. Snuggling with dad or a second caregiver is a great alternative.

    The most peaceful sleep my kids tend to have is after being fed then baked nicely under a blanket on my warm chest.

    Dad’s deserve bonding time too