Do you mind expanding? I don’t know much about CBT, but I am curious about it. Tbh I tried therapy once with like a few sessions and I didn’t really like the therapist because she was 30 mins late to each session and would try to tell me things that I felt were untrue. Would be curious to know if I attempt therapy again what sort of things to look for or avoid. I know CBT is one of the “trendiest” therapies these days but I don’t know much about it.
CBT tells you to be aware of your surroundings and to question all of your negative thoughts to frame them in a more positive way. The problem I had with it is that all negative thoughts are not invalid, and tricking yourself into thinking they are is basically gaslighting yourself. Also, when I was in a rough spot and having a hard time figuring out what to do, questioning all of my thoughts just led to more distrust in myself, which had a negative effect on my mental health, not positive.
I don’t think CBT is necessarily bad when used in the right situations, but it is definitely not a cure-all like the current buzz about it tries to sell it as and it can absolutely have a negative impact.
Yeah I had a major issue with CBT because it’s essentially gaslighting yourself.
You and I have a very different definition of CBT and some part of me is glad for that.
Do you mind expanding? I don’t know much about CBT, but I am curious about it. Tbh I tried therapy once with like a few sessions and I didn’t really like the therapist because she was 30 mins late to each session and would try to tell me things that I felt were untrue. Would be curious to know if I attempt therapy again what sort of things to look for or avoid. I know CBT is one of the “trendiest” therapies these days but I don’t know much about it.
CBT tells you to be aware of your surroundings and to question all of your negative thoughts to frame them in a more positive way. The problem I had with it is that all negative thoughts are not invalid, and tricking yourself into thinking they are is basically gaslighting yourself. Also, when I was in a rough spot and having a hard time figuring out what to do, questioning all of my thoughts just led to more distrust in myself, which had a negative effect on my mental health, not positive.
I don’t think CBT is necessarily bad when used in the right situations, but it is definitely not a cure-all like the current buzz about it tries to sell it as and it can absolutely have a negative impact.