It looks like they have some kind of whitelist set up, limiting federation to the big instances, which seems like a strange thing for one of the small instances to do.
It looks like they have some kind of whitelist set up, limiting federation to the big instances, which seems like a strange thing for one of the small instances to do.
All sounds reasonable. I think I just had an instant eye-roll reaction to the crack about “shitty admins” as the reason for your unusual configuration and making me do extra work to talk with you, and decided not to bother. But sure, if you want to talk with me I’ve got nothing against it.
I think that was an old rant from before we were even federated, as to why I didn’t want to bother at the time. It was an exaggeration, overall we’ve been getting along great with everyone else we’ve federated with since then.
I wasn’t completely off base, for example a bunch of instances defederated us simply because we’re “EH 2.0”, even though they never interacted with us. At the time we were already defederated by a couple of the more zealous ones. The fine gentleman who runs Fediseer is recommending to everyone that they defederate us for being “chuds”. It’s all pretty childish.