• iAmTheTot@sh.itjust.works
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    23 days ago

    If a con man offers me the world, and you offer me nothing, and I listen to the con man… I’ve still fallen for the con, my guy.

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      23 days ago

      Not really. You just chose the least shitty option you were being forced into.

      But I understand acknowledging that would interfere with your ability to feel smug.

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          23 days ago

          Because it’s a binary choice where the other option is someone not even willing to pretend they’ll help you.

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            23 days ago

            Still a bad option.

            The person who is upfront about it can be reasoned with. The liar is never going to be trustworthy.

            If the guy at the train station lies and tells me that the train will be here in an hour I waste an hour. If he tells me the train has been cancelled I know to make another plan.

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              23 days ago

              A better example would be a waiter who spits on your sandwich in the kitchen vs one who’ll spit on it after they drop it off at the table.

              Your best choice is to burn down the diner.

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                23 days ago

                Nothing says ‘privilege’ more than people who talk about burning the system down.

                It’s like the guys who have never been in a fight are always ready to see other people go at it.

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                  23 days ago

                  I don’t know. Expecting people to go along with a system that’s literally killing them seems way more privileged. You must not be suffering under the current status quo.

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                    23 days ago

                    Look at Ukraine or Gaza if you want to see suffering.

                    Like I said, ‘privilege.’

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                23 days ago

                Even your own example doesn’t prove your point. I’d rather someone spit in my food where I can see it and ignore it.

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                  23 days ago

                  Actually, that’s exactly my point. Blue MAGA acts shocked people don’t want to bury their heads in the sand with them, and expects the rest of us to stop complaining and just eat the spit.

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                    23 days ago

                    So you would rather eat spit than see someone spit in your food and send it back? No wonder you’re praising republicans

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        23 days ago

        What? How am I being smug by just pointing out that falling for a con is… Falling for a con? Trump is a well, well, well documented con man. Like… Maybe the most well documented con man ever. It’s really hard to feel bad for anyone who voted for him getting screwed over.

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          23 days ago

          Love the ‘how am I being smug?!’ followed by the classic smug victim blaming.

          Both Dem and GOP supporters are being conned. Neither of you are in a position to be pointing fingers at the other.

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            23 days ago

            To be clear, I don’t blame people who fall for scams or cons. I did say it’s hard to feel bad for Trump voters specifically, but that’s a pretty special circumstance as I tried to describe.

            All I said was that falling for a scam or con is falling for a scam or con.

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              23 days ago

              Yeah. That’s called ‘being smug.’ Especially if you just voted for the other fascist.

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                22 days ago

                Why do you presume to know who I voted for? Or that I’m even American?

                I really don’t think we share the same definition of smug. Have a good day.