so i (13f) am friends with nadya (14f). i desire a connection with her and i’ve noticed i get jealous when nadya does things like touch her attachment’s arm (she develops attachments).
i want someone to connect with me like that. lately, i’ve been having dreams about her. nadya has insomnia, so in one, she called me on the phone and told me (after i told her to get a doctor’s appointment) that she slept a full 8 hours and thanked me for the advice.
nadya gives me eye contact, listens to me, and is very sweet to me in my dreams. i even went to her house, which i notice is a common dream i have with people i’m “in love” with.
i haven’t been to her house in two years because she’s so busy. i can’t believe i feel THIS way about the girl i used to be jealous of. (she used to be rude to ppl and i was jealous bc she dated my crush at the time.)
when nadya tells HER she loves her, it makes me kinda wish she was like that w me but idk if i just desire connection or what
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Sometimes it is hard to know. You may just want to be friends. Maybe more than friends.
Likely don’t need to label it yet. Clarity takes time ans interaction (one should not build up the relationship solo.)
If you live somewhere with legal or safety concerns, be slow and cautious.
This. Don’t rush it. Stay as just friends for a bit. The easiest way to lose a friend is to develop a romantic relationship with them. I’d love to be friends with, or as good of friends as we used to be, with some people, and all you can do is regret it.
That being said, you can’t live a life free of any regrets; if there’s wind in your sails, don’t leave the anchor dragging.