I like girls. And guys, but guys are easy. Girls not so much, and for good reason. Guys are horny monsters that sexually assault and harass women, and, being aware of this, I (a) don’t want to come across as a potential threat and (b) want them to feel comfortable around me.
Thing is, I also want to hit on women because again I like girls. How can I do this without coming across as a creep and still let them feel comfortable? Not a fan of dating apps, feel like they’re ineffective (tho I’ve have some luck on them (not much tho) ).
I just meant joking without negativity. I don’t think self-deprecation would work well, for example, and negging is just evil, lol
The only suggestion I could think of for developing it would be to join an improv class.
A lot of pickup lines are just wordplay, based on puns and stuff. And Dad Jokes are called Dad Jokes because they got laid at some point! Lol