• cynar@lemmy.world
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    14 hours ago

    The reason that neurodivergent became a term is that it also includes people who are slightly different from normal, but not necessarily diagnosed, or diagnosable.

    Using these as your primary love indicators is odd, not bad, just non-normal. It’s common amongst NDs, but far less so amongst NTs.

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      12 hours ago

      I get that, and still, there’s a multitude of “normal” ways in love language theory where these fit as well