I’ve already accepted that I can have sex no matter who it is with. I think that to have sex I need to have a good bond with that girl or boy in this case before having sex.

It took me a while to realize, they sent me links to articles about different types of labels and I realized that I identify with demisexuality.

I am straight, gay for pay and demisexual.

I told my friend about this and he thought that when I said “I’m demisexual, I discovered I prefer having sex with people I’m in a relationship with” I meant in a romantic way. He said “Are you saying we’re boyfriend and girlfriend?” very excitedly. I told him that I didn’t mean that, I meant a relationship in general, getting to know the person. And I could tell he felt a little bad.

I feel like he has other feelings for me, he’s 2 years younger than me, I was a little afraid of doing things with him for fear that he’d fall in love and I think he fell in love with me.

  • Brandanfinchh@lemmy.worldOP
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    It confuses me too, haha. I asked in the GPT chat, and they say you can be straight and demisexual at the same time. To be demisexual, you only need to be in a relationship with someone, not casual sex with strangers. And for a demisexual, the relationship connection doesn’t have to be romantic, just a deep and close bond. The GPT chat also says that. I checked it there, haha.