• don@lemm.ee
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    16 days ago

    You engage with him on his level you dunce this isn’t quantum fucking mechanics goddamn

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    If your a woman, push him down and sit on his face.

    If your a guy, maybe the same, I’m not sure exactly how to make that work.

    Things should proceed from there.

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    16 days ago

    Just ask? “dude, are you begging for degredation, or just checking to see if I like the real you?”

    I promise, I’ve never heard of a non-bottom plotting to torture a top for revenge or whatever like so - you’ll almost certainly get laid, so what’s the problem? If either previous scenario is really too bothersome for you, just leave; He deserves better.

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    15 days ago

    Never thought I’d be envious of a green text, but that sounds like the best night ever.

    I am BEGGING you show me your plushie friends and talk about them! Anyone, please!

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      The most rudimentary definition: a top prefers to be in control, often interpreted as preferring to penetrate, while a bottom wants to relinquish some level of control, often interpreted as wanting to be penetrated. Someone who is vers usually finds both positions and power dynamics equally exciting. Of course, this is an oversimplified explanation of an increasingly nuanced framework for sexual preferences

      https://www.them.us/story/what-does-it-mean-to-be-a-top-bottom-or-vers