I’m struggling with the thought of potentially bringing another person into this world in the future.
Things are so bad already and on track to get worse. Why, with this knowledge, should I have a child? Why should any of us?
I’m not asking this to be some overpopulation crazy eco-fascist but I just genuinely am wondering (and have an open mind) about what the actual implications are of bringing a child into the world right now.
By 2050 it’s pretty broadly agreed upon that things will be HORRIBLE climate wise and even worse if capitalism isn’t defeated soon. 2022 + 80 year potential life span is 2102. What will it be like then?
Why not adopt one of the billions of climate refugees instead?
I don’t know, maybe I’m way out of touch but I just can’t think of a reason to damn a child to a life like that.
Yes, you’re right, I think it may be an overstatement to call it a duty, but having children, through any means, either birth or adoption, is how communities reproduce themselves historically. And yes, having children serves capital, so does buying commodities, yet it is how you reproduce your life. There’s no escape from this. But if we boycott ourselves from participating in raising children, the conservative white supremacist family will continue to do so anyways.
It is only a form of gendered violence if it’s implied that it’s a task for a particular gender. I didn’t imply that at all. Since we’re both communists, you’d think it was an implicit agreement that we should fight against gender oppression? If I say that raising children is a communist duty (however wrong that statement might be), you can’t possibly expect that I was referring to women raising children in this day and age, seriously
The mistake was on me, I used “having children”, when I should have used “raising children”, as it would be more explicit that I am not speaking specifically of birth, I even mentioned adoption at the end of my comment.
So, in your view, we should not have, raise, adopt children because we would be “reinforcing the very family structures that serve the capitalist class”? No one is obliged to conform to those structures, and also, one can have a family beyond the capitalist nuclear family. This would be a “practical criticism” of the traditional nuclear family.
Nope you completely missed what I said. Not once did I say we should avoid raising children, your entire response is an absolute misrepresenting of my comment.
What I said is that it is wrong to call it a duty. Every point I made was why it was wrong to call it a duty. Every bit of my comment was that it should be about autonomy and not a duty. That’s it. Please actually read what I said and respond to the actual point in the future.
And no, it is not an “implicit assumption” that you meant it without gender oppression, because we live in a system (the system in which you called it a duty) in which it is gender oppression. And any framing of it as a “duty” will ultimately come from a place of gender oppression, because that is coercive and compulsive, anti-autonomous leveraging of reproduction.
It’s not implicit, because there’s plenty of misogyny and queerphobia in many conversations in communist communities, so you have to be explicit when you talk about these things.