Basically being left out of the group but for life 😀

  • alcoholicorn [comrade/them, doe/deer]@hexbear.net
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    1 year ago

    But no you’re apparently supposed to just say “its really good thanks for making it!” and that just boggles my mind to no end.

    What no you are gaslighting them.

    I wouldn’t use the word ‘mistake’ unless I’m admitting something I’ve done was unintentional. When it’s someone else, I just point out “Most restaurants do it this way instead, because X, or Doing Y makes your dish more Z”

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      1 year ago

      Right? It’s totally gaslighting what we are expected to say just out of “politeness”

      But mistake and a difference of technique are two completely different things. It is mind boggling that saying something is a mistake is considered rude.