Rozaŭtuno@lemmy.blahaj.zone to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 11 months agoSupportive rulelemmy.mlimagemessage-square33fedilinkarrow-up1635arrow-down10cross-posted to: wholesomememes@lemmy.ml
arrow-up1635arrow-down1imageSupportive rulelemmy.mlRozaŭtuno@lemmy.blahaj.zone to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 11 months agomessage-square33fedilinkcross-posted to: wholesomememes@lemmy.ml
minus-squareJo Miran@lemmy.mllinkfedilinkarrow-up85·11 months agoI have been with wife almost thirty years. I wish it had occurred to me to ask this so many times before saying something. So many times.
minus-squareedric@lemm.eelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up49·edit-211 months agoI agree. Having a natural tendency to want to solve a problem makes us want to fix it immediately but sometimes it’s not the answer, when they just want to vent or someone to listen.
minus-squareusualsuspect191@lemmy.calinkfedilinkarrow-up5·11 months agoUntil their shawarma falls apart every day and they never get past the feelings stage…
minus-squarebobs_monkey@lemm.eelinkfedilinkarrow-up1·11 months agoTime for them to head out to pasture
minus-squareTrenchcoatFullOfBats@belfry.riplinkfedilinkarrow-up2·11 months agoRelevant Parks and Recreation
minus-squarelgmjon64@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up24·11 months agoI ask my wife and kids if they need someone to help problem solve or just listen. It’s been a game changer.
minus-squareCluckN@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up19·11 months ago“Is this the feeling stage” to me feels like, “are you ready to here solutions or are you going to keep complaining?”.
minus-squareJo Miran@lemmy.mllinkfedilinkarrow-up9·11 months agoThe idea is sound but the wording needs work.
minus-squarewhelks_chance@feddit.uklinkfedilinkarrow-up3·11 months agoThere’s no ordering to the ways it’s worded. It doesn’t say “ready for solutions yet?” Or “are you still having feelings”.
I have been with wife almost thirty years. I wish it had occurred to me to ask this so many times before saying something. So many times.
I agree. Having a natural tendency to want to solve a problem makes us want to fix it immediately but sometimes it’s not the answer, when they just want to vent or someone to listen.
Until their shawarma falls apart every day and they never get past the feelings stage…
Time for them to head out to pasture
Relevant Parks and Recreation
I ask my wife and kids if they need someone to help problem solve or just listen. It’s been a game changer.
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Because their mood needs fixing
“Is this the feeling stage” to me feels like, “are you ready to here solutions or are you going to keep complaining?”.
The idea is sound but the wording needs work.
There’s no ordering to the ways it’s worded. It doesn’t say “ready for solutions yet?” Or “are you still having feelings”.