vselennaya [he/him]@hexbear.net to neurodiverse@hexbear.netEnglish · 10 months ago

Sorry for posting twice in one day.

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Sorry for posting twice in one day.

vselennaya [he/him]@hexbear.net to neurodiverse@hexbear.netEnglish · 10 months ago

I know, two posts in one community in the span of 24 hours is a lot, perhaps irritating but I have a lot of problems.

You may not have seen my last post, but I have severe OCD and Depression.

I have trouble not touching people. Whether it’s messing around with my brothers or just being touchy. I’ve had two people in the span of two days tell me to stop touching them and it’s increasingly awkward and embarrassing. Ironically I myself hate being touched by anything or anyone and have haphephobia.

I need to stop fucking touching people. Does anybody else do this or know any ways to prevent it?

Again, I’m really sorry for posting twice in one day, it’s rather odd.

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I’m very touchy and cuddly but that part of me doesn’t come out until I get confirmation from the other person that they’re okay with it. But once I do I worry I overdo it. I’m not just touch starved either, even when I get plenty of human contact I still crave more.

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