I run a few groups, like @fediversenews@venera.social, mostly on Friendica. It’s okay, but Friendica resembles Facebook Groups more than Reddit. I also like the moderation options that Lemmy has.
Currently, I’m testing jerboa, which is an Android client for Lemmy. It’s in alpha, has a few hiccups, but it’s coming along nicely.
Personally, I hope the #RedditMigration sours adoption of more Fediverse server software. And I hope Mastodon users continue to interact with Lemmy and Kbin.
All that said, as a mod of a Reddit community (r/Sizz) I somewhat regret giving Reddit all that content. They have nerve charging so much for API access!
Hopefully, we can build a better version of social media that focuses on protocols, not platforms.
I’ve experienced similar where the comment count doesn’t match. The main reason is probably delays in federation, the instance you’re using doesn’t have all the data yet. Another thing I noticed is the lemmy web interface doesn’t always refresh properly by just navigating around, sometimes you need to hit the browser’s refresh button, i’ve noticed a lot of comments show up when doing this.