• RyanGosling [none/use name]@hexbear.net
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    11 months ago

    I know a guy like this. He doesn’t think he’s some alpha male, but he thinks they’re all liars, liberal, want to be disrespected, and have a child-like mind. He tells me that he constantly lies about his views and say whatever to get him closer to getting laid.

    I don’t think he’s bad looking. He works out, has money, decently tall, and extroverted.

    He hasn’t had a successful relationship in a while, if any at all lol. Every time I talk to him he’s complaining and getting angry about dates failing. Now, some of the girls are indeed assholes. But, I feel like when you’re not hideous, proudly admit these mindsets, and every date turns into a disaster, then maybe it’s time to reevaluate.

    For context, I’m not exactly slaying out there, but he keeps asking me if “these bitches are stuck up” or “everything become PC after third wave feminism.” I’ve never encountered these types of people outside of twitter screenshots. Even the feminists I know will casually joke about inappropriate, traditionally “politically incorrect” stuff because they don’t think I’m suspicious

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      He tells me that he constantly lies about his views and says whatever to get him closer to getting laid.

      The thing that these guys don’t seem to understand is that women can usually tell when these guys are putting on an act or lying to get something. He’s probably putting out a million red flags lol

      Women have had to become human lie detectors, but for some reason, it’s women who are painted as liars or manipulators. Crazy world.

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      11 months ago

      left-leaning

      they want to be disrespected and have a child-like mind

      Pick one. Most women that fall into the latter category are CHUDs.

      Constantly lies about his views

      Why? Right-wing beliefs are the most fashionable of all ideologies. It may all be completely idiotic, but people think it’s cool to subscribe to its thought-process. Like, I’m the one who has to constantly hide my power level to make sure I don’t end up completely isolated from others.

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        11 months ago

        Some conservative views are popular accepted, like monogamy and marriage, but that’s small ‘c’ conservative. He’s like Joe Rogan/Jordan Peterson/GOP type of conservatism.

        Conservatives have always complained about dating in urban areas because the truth is women aren’t attracted to dudes who think they know about female bodies from reading tweets, or think crypto will change the universe. So they try to lie about what they believe and realize being insincere is easily detectable