pizza? flowers? a card?
Also, what’s the phrase in english for support and encouragement to keep going when someone is going through a difficult time? In chinese say “加油” (literally: add oil ie. add fuel to keep going) or in french we say “courage”, don’t know what the phrase is in english.
Just leave them completely alone. Give them time to bury the feelings deep, deep down where they can never come back out.
The key to this is that if they ask for help, you tell them to be a man, suck it up and get back to work.
^^this ^^is ^^sarcasm, ^^obviously.