• DrCatface@lemmy.worldEnglish
      25·
      6 months ago

      oh is this why i nearly murdered that guy for dropping his cigarette butts down the drain

    • shneancy@lemmy.worldEnglish
      222·
      6 months ago

      haha that is the main reason why I’m choosing to live in ignorance about what’s happening in the news, I can’t handle so much of it. It makes my blood boil. The important things get to me through memes anyway

    • achance4cheese@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
      23·
      6 months ago

      Wednesday forever and this whole grocery store hated me kind of covers that, but yeah, dread is especially apparent with phone calls and late afternoon appointments.

    • Shyfer@ttrpg.networkEnglish
      16·
      6 months ago

      I’m currently the one being cut off from someone and I feel like shit… I double-booked a thing and now they think I suck and am not reliable. And it’s probably true. I’m so bad at dates and remembering to write things down, but I want to change. This is probably the push I need to remember forever now, but don’t want to lose my friend group over it. Fuck, I hate myself so much.

      Oh hey, that whole type of rant is on the list,too lol.

      • experbia@lemmy.worldEnglish
        14·
        6 months ago

        Hey man,

        you’re probably fine. I don’t know the details, but humans are fallible. you’re only human. friends should know this, they’re only human too. I doubt these friends have all been perfect all the time, and I doubt they’ll do everything perfect from here on out.

        If it caused a problem, tell them the truth. you double booked. you had to pick one over the other. you feel bad you flaked. you don’t intend to make it a habit.

        if it cost people something, consider making it up somehow. but I would propose that unless it’s cost them real bad, good friends ought to accept the apology without expecting the compensation. they’ll mess up someday too, and it’s better for everyone to be kind.

        don’t hate yourself. it does no good for anyone. counterproductive and undeserved. develop a system to help you. you can’t always change your nature, but you can build around it.

          • Tedrick02@lemmy.todayEnglish
            2·
            6 months ago

            I know it’s hard to get in the habit, but take out your phone when making any plans or appointments, get the calendar app out and add it as it happens. Don’t wait even 1 minute. Feel free to tell the person you’re adding it to the calendar as you do it if you feel like you’re being rude. I set reminder notifications for all appointments based on how much notice I would need if I completely forgot about it.

      • stoly@lemmy.worldEnglish
        3·
        6 months ago

        Remember that emotional dysregulation is a very common thing among the general population and many cannot separate that they are frustrated with a situation and being frustrated with you. You don’t really want to be around people capable of such heavy levels of judgement or an unwillingness to be charitable in their interpretations of others.

    • stoly@lemmy.worldEnglish
      2·
      6 months ago

      Yeah pretty much I spent years being traumatized by idiots before I realized that most people are stupid and not worth your time. Once I understood that, life became so much better. I am now of the opinion that few people are worth the drama they bring to your lives, and your real goal is to find those few who are worth it.

    • general_kitten@sopuli.xyzEnglish
      19·
      6 months ago

      My guess is its the exhaustion of having survived the start of the week combined with the dread of having to survive that long again

    • stoly@lemmy.worldEnglish
      7·
      6 months ago

      The cycle never ends. There’s never a downtime, just more “do-do-do”. The moment you finish something, it’s already time to start it again.

    • PorkRoll@lemmy.worldEnglish
      16·
      6 months ago

      If I remember correctly, hypersexuality is often a symptom of ADHD because the sweet release of dopamine that comes with sex and sex related activities often helps ease the other symptoms of ADHD.

        • TimewornTraveler@lemm.eeEnglish
          142·
          6 months ago

          stalking someone’s posts seems more like harassment than anything else. try blocking

          do you even know who you’re replying to? I have zero interest in whatever petty bullshit yall bringing from another community. I just thought they needed a reminder to log off once in a while, if this is how you’re spending your time. same to you, Mixter Step-In

          • Leela [it/its] @lemm.eeEnglish
            319·
            6 months ago

            This whole thing was started because Starmer has a hate boner for it and deleted its comment. Starmer provoked someone, so they shouldn’t be surprised when the provoked responds back.

              • Leela [it/its] @lemm.eeEnglish
                216·
                6 months ago

                Cyberbullying can’t be undone simply by “turning off your computer”. These are real people harassing other real people and profiting off of the fact they are anonymous and probably won’t be held accountable for their vileness, meanwhile the victim will just suffer and be scared to even wake up in the morning. This shit is SERIOUS, especially for those with cluster B personality disorders who are already HEAVILY stigmatized as it is. The internet is supposed to be a save haven, and the only way to maintain that is through fighting and actively pointing out toxic people such as yourself.

          • Exocrinous@lemm.eeEnglish
            220·
            6 months ago

            I’m not stalking him. I’m browsing Lemmy normally and he happens to come across me very often because of all his posts. I tell him to fuck off when he runs into me. That’s not stalking.

            • Stamets@lemmy.worldOPEnglish
              151·
              6 months ago

              You made 5 comments today across all my posts (including this one) openly accusing me. You are the top level comment. You are running into me because you are a stalker.

              Probably just want to get attention from someone more popular than you.

      • Stamets@lemmy.worldOPEnglish
        232·
        6 months ago

        Literally no.

        That user is otherwise known as DroneRights. You can check modlogs and see that they’ve had accounts on every major instance and every account has been banned for transphobia, general bigotry, slander, and copious amounts of lying. They particularly hate me because I am both a popular poster as well as someone who specifically called out their shit and got them banned from Startrek.website. They openly admit that they have narcissistic personality disorder and are using that to both abuse other people as well as shield themselves from abuse. They are literally incapable of coping with the fact that someone has pointed out that they are a trash person and has made it their sole mission to try and slander me at every possible case.

        I banned them from 3 communities earlier today for making these exact same claims about me and providing zero evidence but these comments still exist elsewhere.

        Honestly I just keep forgetting they exist. I think they’re drastically overselling how important they think they are. Only reason I’m even aware of their existence is because they just keep copy/pasting the same argument over and over again. Literally not creative enough to come up with anything new.

            • Leela [it/its] @lemm.eeEnglish
              218·
              6 months ago

              Do you need me to doxx myself and send over my location, face, home and everything to prove I am not DroneRights? Do you need me to compare blood samples? Because I feel that simply saying the truth won’t be enough for you.

              You can’t possibly fathom that ANYONE would actually defend a narcissistic person. You can’t fathom that ANYONE would stand up against injustice besides just talking about standing up against injustice. You can’t imagine someone doing this shit out of love and care, because you have zero concern about people with NPD. As long as you will continue this dehumanizing nonsense, you never will. What do you need me to give you to prove it to you that I am not just an alt? I am my own person with my own choices who has seen this stuff and decided to jump in. Not the first time I’ve done it, not the last time I will, either. If you choose to not believe me, that’s fine. Believe what you want. But you can’t fathom that anyone else would disagree with you, would stand up against you and would point out your hypocrisy.

              Last thing: you don’t know me. You don’t know who I am, what I do, what I like, what I dislike, what I eat and drink. If you knew, you’d know I’m not an alt account.

              • Stamets@lemmy.worldOPEnglish
                113·
                6 months ago

                Your IP was matched to DroneRights when you were banned from another instance.

                You are a known alt account of DroneRights.

                • Leela [it/its] @lemm.eeEnglish
                  213·
                  6 months ago

                  How was it even matched to DroneRights? Can you show me the proof it was? Could you please give everyone the damning piece of evidence that proves once and for all that I am an alt account of DroneRights. If my IP was matched to DR’s IP, then I need to see this. I am genuinely stupefied by this. Like, genuinely give me a link to the modlogs or send a screenshot, any sort of proof. I did not know my IP was matched to theirs. I know my IP should be Romanian because that’s where I am from, and indicating Bucharest because we are using a private relay on our iPhone (the iCloud+ thing).

        • MetaCubed@lemmy.worldEnglish
          211·
          6 months ago

          “Narcissist is a slur!” -cried the Narcissist

          I’ve done the digging I need to to confirm to my satisfaction that you’ve at least 3 alts, all of which defend you, use it/its pronouns, and all of which claim to be the originating victim.

          Stop lying, log off

          • Stamets@lemmy.worldOPEnglish
            154·
            6 months ago

            Wish I could say I hated them or even pitied them but frankly I don’t even think about them at all. The fact that they think about me non-stop is pretty gratifying though I guess.

          • Leela [it/its] @lemm.eeEnglish
            110·
            6 months ago

            That’s your only proof? My guy. Did you just learn yesterday that more than a single person uses it/its pronouns? Damn.

        • 𝙲𝚑𝚊𝚒𝚛𝚖𝚊𝚗 𝙼𝚎𝚘𝚠@programming.devEnglish
          222·
          6 months ago

          “Narcissist” is not a slur. Additionally, he’s calling you out for your bad behaviour and online harassment, not “because you have NPD”.

          If you have a mental disorder that prevents you from behaving nicely online, it may be wiser not to comment. Because people won’t see your NPD as an excuse, but as a justification showing that you do demonstrate bad behaviour and therefore are prone to breaking the (social) rules. Ergo justifying the ban.