• gun@lemmy.ml
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    3 years ago

    I think I am in an in between period. On the one hand, I’ve wanted to be older and become more mature and responsible. Graduate, get a job, get my own place to live, get married, start a family. I’m starting to get to the point though where my growing age feels less positive, because now it comes with regrets of things I haven’t accomplished yet.

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    3 years ago

    I’m already grown up. The best thing is getting to know oneself, and be able to improve. It can only be achieved through experience (aka “errors”). Use your experience to tune yourself!

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    3 years ago

    Hate it when people tell me to “grow up”, whenever I do sth. that is considered childish, equating it with unserious. So I ask: Why so serious? Who defines what behavior counts as “adult” & what doesn’t? One should be free to act silly whenever (in a harmless way ofc).

    Many people were the happiest when they were kids, so might as well keep the attitude, if nothing else

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      3 years ago

      Idk to be honest but i would prefer to be born before and experience 2000s

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    3 years ago

    I’m definitely growing up - when I get out of bed or a chair, my body seems to make alot of noise, but, my brain hasn’t received the memo yet…it still operates as a 20 something so does my energy level. Dating is much harder for me as the men who are obtainable for me are so fucking boring to me!

    But, I also seem to care much less of what others think of me…and that part of being older is WONDERFUL!!

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    3 years ago

    Body start breaking , gotta take care of those joint, muscles and bones

  • Lionel C-R@lemmy.coupou.fr
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    Like I have less and less time to do what I like and learn what I want to learn. Like I care less and less about what people think.

    Like Life is good :)

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    3 years ago

    Sucks ass. All of the responsibility while also being to busy or tired to enjoy the benefits.