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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • Oh yeah, funny how that works. Even in some of the most welcoming places, it can be very difficult to talk about things your already well into, much less speaking up about things you might think you could be into! Especially since, at least IMO, expressing yourself in those more…let’s say basal/carnal desires can really help you understand more about yourself on an emotional level. >.>b

    I agree on the whole being supportive thing, too. Relationships, be it just a FWB thing or something more concrete, are really built on trust. Knowing you can say things that might sound strange or try new things really does make things better in the long run, tho. It can be hard when your trying to figure…out your tastes. Sometimes, they can be horribly specific/ situation based…other times, going off the beaten path and trying something new to you can open up a whole new world of enjoyable things to do!



  • I’ll give answering this a shot, then…i’m a switch. Hard to say which way I lean though, it all depends on the setting and the other part(y-ies).

    One of my main kinks is tickle torture. If you put someone in front of me who’s all submissive, helpless, and sensitive…I find myself easily slipping into a dominant role.
    However, I also really enjoy seeing myself in that role as well! Something about being unable to hold back, and be driven further and further into hysterics, just…feeling helpless and not in control, it’s really rather freeing in it’s own right.
    I have noticed that if I go too long without being able to express my submissive needs, I get into a pretty miserable mood, though.

    So it might be fair to say I am a switch, leaning Dominant…but there’s just something so freeing and relaxing about being a submissive, that I couldn’t go without it.