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  • Outside your comfort zone / different culture: The Last Ringbearer by Kirill Yeskov. It examines the events of The Lord of The Rings, from the perspective of Mordor and the orcs. Written by a Russian author. Super good, almost better than LotR.

    As a suggestion form me (a random on the internet) ultraprocessed people, the science of food that isn’t food.








  • You may have a specific deficiency, but your story does not constitute data.

    There have been many studies that have addressed this specific issue. Literally billions of dollars are wasted every year on these supplements. If you have a healthy diet, you are very unlikely to need supplementation.

    This is the availability bias, because your experience is normal for you, you unconsciously think your experience is more normal than it is.



  • absGeekNZ@lemmy.nztoADHD memes@lemmy.dbzer0.comoof
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    14 days ago

    I have come through this, you sound like you are in a similar position to me.

    One thing that helped for me was, imagine yourself 5 or even 10 years in the past, looking at a person in your position. What would that version of you think of the current you? If it is something like “when I have what that guy has, then I’ll be happy”, examine why your level for “happiness” has changed over that time.

    Also stoic philosophy is great, the wisdom of 2500 years helps.


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    14 days ago

    That word “supposed”, you are not “supposed” to feel anything…you feel what you feel, accept that. Rather than valuing getting tasks completed, try to change your value to something like “I’m a dependable person”, I am the type of person who you can depend on to help get that project across the line, but sometimes higher priority things will come up.