so why didn’t you ask the community? why does the admin team keep making massive decisions that everyone disagrees with and then scolding us after the inevitable backlash? it’s actually infuriating

i just dont understand what the point of this was. inviting /r/vegan over would be fine, but why invite a community that’s out and proud of being toxic and shitty to people? like geez, who’d have thought that a subreddit known for shitting up other subreddits would immediately start shitting up this site once invited.

now the actual users of this site all feel pissed off and alienated, mods and admins exhausted to the point where like 3 are quitting and all we got out of it is a bunch of mean reddit weirdos

maybe in the future you could actually ask the fucking community what they think of inviting in new people, instead of making the decision for us and scolding us like usual

how the fuck did this post get 200+ comments

what have i done

can we have downvotes back just for this one post

in a case like that yea i would agree with it being transphobic

i just seriously hate the opinion that genitalia is just a “preference”, i feel like it’s basically like a woke version of “being gay is a choice” and it makes me uncomfortable as fuck

that’s literally what everyone is talking about here in the comments rn

calling someone transphobic because they don’t want to date someone with genitals they’re not attracted to is idiotic as fuck and makes us look like lunatics, it’s not “preference”, it’s sexuality and it’s fixed

yes there’s straight men who are still attracted to women if they have a penis but that’s not the case for most

not dating post-op trans women? sure, that’s pretty shitty

but not dating pre-op/non-op trans women isn’t transphobia, you can’t pick your sexuality

i hate this struggle session so much

this series was weird as fuck

the teachings of christianity are fucking great - don’t hoard wealth, don’t judge your neighbours and love them, give money and food to the poor, etc. jesus was unironically a socialist

problem is that most christians don’t actually follow those teachings