A while ago I was kinda surprised that my attractions shifted predominantly towards men. I knew I was bi for years and was alright with that but, still was predominantly attracted to women. Then for the last couple of weeks my interest in women picked up. Now, I feel myself shifting interest to men again but, not as strongly as the last time.
I guess upon reflection, my growing romantic attraction to men is what probably drove the recent increase in my attraction to the same sex. That was a more recent development that happened in the last year when I tried browsing OLD sites again. I started looking at the men I saw as potential long term partners in a way I only thought about with women until that point.
Does anyone else deal with this too?
Edit: Sorry if the response time was a bit laggy, my shit was longer than usual today.
The way I deal with it is by suffering childhood and ongoinig emotional abuse and never forming relationships
I feel for you. 🫂 Trying to sort through one’s sexuality is something that seems to run in my family, I guess. I hope I deal with it better than those that came before me.