A while ago I was kinda surprised that my attractions shifted predominantly towards men. I knew I was bi for years and was alright with that but, still was predominantly attracted to women. Then for the last couple of weeks my interest in women picked up. Now, I feel myself shifting interest to men again but, not as strongly as the last time.

I guess upon reflection, my growing romantic attraction to men is what probably drove the recent increase in my attraction to the same sex. That was a more recent development that happened in the last year when I tried browsing OLD sites again. I started looking at the men I saw as potential long term partners in a way I only thought about with women until that point.

Does anyone else deal with this too?

Edit: Sorry if the response time was a bit laggy, my shit was longer than usual today.

  • Red_Sunshine_Over_Florida [he/him]@hexbear.netOPEnglish
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    6 months ago

    Yeah, it’s strange. I gotta just get more comfortable with the idea. I think it really started when I started taking a serious look at guys as potential romantic partners. Ever since then, I’ve had the same sort of romantic daydreams of sharing common interests and having fun doing couple stuff that I used to think about exclusively with regards to women.