Why would I unload my emotional baggage on the people who caused it in the first place? That just sounds like more baggage.
Edit: This was supposed to be a joke. You can stop pointing out my complex trauma, thank you.
You wouldn’t, that why you have no idea how to comfort people.
Gonna need a storage locker its gitten to big!
That’s where I keep mine! It’s safe there and no one is bothered by it. Except me 😫
This is exactly the kind of thing that comes from emotional isolation and a wrecked self-esteem and a lack of proper, loving people close to you in life.
In healthy environments, people who love each other share with each other a lot of things without it feeling like a burden to anyone and they support each other and know how to just listen and be available. And no, I don’t know what that’s like either, I am just sharing the legends and stories.
Because it could be used as a teaching moment.
A good parent might sometimes give their child tasks they aren’t ready to handle and let them make a mistake on purpose in order to teach them right from wrong.
A parent will simply let them persist in their mistake because it’s easier than making the mistake effort to correct them.
It’s okay you emotionally stunted sexy cabbage 🫂
k, sry for bothering you, didn’t mean to cause you discomfort :(
They were cuter then they had any right to be!
One of the most surefire recipes for creating a generation of people who don’t want to socialize, improve themselves or feel any self-worth, is to be a parent who feels entitled to being the main character of the story and all your kids are just props and accessories.
Who else has 10 hours of escapism and self-medication on the agenda today.
Okay, if you don’t mind I’d like to curl into a ball here on floor for a bit.
Oof
The only way to achieve that is by not having emotions
It’s not a good idea to burry emotions inside yourself because they eventually collect and affect you in ways you don’t realise
It’s good to have a healthy outlet for it, meditation is one of those ways
Challenge accepted.
Ok…
I can’t deal with the guilt of burdening someone who cares about me with knowledge of how much I want to not exist. I know exactly how that burden of anxiety and worry feels and I can’t stand saddling someone I know and care about with it. It doesn’t matter whether they want me to or not, I just can’t deal with it. They’ll all want to help and they can’t and they’ll feel terrible they can’t help and I can’t put them in that place.
If I tell someone about suicidal ideation, confide in them, then if I ever do end up killikg myself it would wreck them that they couldn’t or didn’t do anything to help. Or at least, I would in their position. Fuck.
This would be funnier with TF2 characters
