Don’t know if it was the same thread you’re referring to, but I posted here earlier that I found it came in waves when I was locked up long-term. And that’s just it - really horny for a couple of weeks, then it fades for a couple of weeks, then comes back after a while, and so forth. Of course, teasing helps keep the horniness going, especially during the downtimes, so if you do have a keyholder who is open to that, you should discuss it with them. That said, I’m about as far from asexual as you can get, so our experiences may differ, and maybe for you that feeling won’t come back after it dissipates. The only real way to know is to try it.

For me, the first two weeks of abstinence are pretty easy. Week 3 is very different - I feel very horny, frustrated, and irritated. And then week 4 and onwards things are easier again. I’ve only made it past that 3 week hump - when before I’ve caved - once, in my current streak, and I’m currently on day 52. It’s not that tough; I’m learning new things about my body, like how I experience horniness now and if/how I can satisfy it.

I think there’s a general idea around femdom/FLR communities that males peak in sexual frustration around week 3, after which they seem to adopt to the new normal of not coming. So, proponents of this lifestyle let their men have a ‘release’ every 3 weeks - to maximize their long-term frustration/ submissiveness/ etc. I believe I’ve read this in detail on the blog evolvingyourman. I don’t know how truly common it is in those communities.

So, I think you’re in good company if you notice your horniness rising and falling with time in a patterned way - that more time spent in chastity doesn’t always equal more horniness. It may be that you stop feeling horny quicker (~2 weeks versus ~4) than non aces