I’m asexual but I enjoy feeling horny so I dabble in chastity. I find that I stop feeling horny after about 2 weeks and don’t really desire an orgasm anymore. Do other people experience chastity similarly or is this another difference from being ace? I’ve not gone longer than a month really so maybe, as someone suggested the other day, it comes in waves?

  • DelvianSeek@lemmynsfw.com
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    1 year ago

    Don’t know if it was the same thread you’re referring to, but I posted here earlier that I found it came in waves when I was locked up long-term. And that’s just it - really horny for a couple of weeks, then it fades for a couple of weeks, then comes back after a while, and so forth. Of course, teasing helps keep the horniness going, especially during the downtimes, so if you do have a keyholder who is open to that, you should discuss it with them. That said, I’m about as far from asexual as you can get, so our experiences may differ, and maybe for you that feeling won’t come back after it dissipates. The only real way to know is to try it.