trash like that compromise the entire purpose of the community
Mods do not vet individual mutual aid requests. Donate at your own risk and hold each other accountable.
That’s rule one of this community. How exactly do we “hold each other accountable” if not by calling into question the sincerity of long-time users who have received thousands of dollars from this comm and still come back asking for more?
edit: and just to add, part of the reason im invested is I have given OP money. On multiple occasions. Not small amounts of it either. Hours of my life, spent working. I have absolutely no problem “extending a helping hand.” It sucks to see that OP would rather use that money for drugs than to shower. I know that that’s what addiction is like, and I know it’s not so much a conscious choice as a compulsion. But more money isn’t going to help with that. OP has to fundamentally change the way they are approaching life and the money that they are given before giving them money is going to help anything.
11 days ago, OP had over $1000. now OP is asking for $20 to buy food. what happened to the $1000? where did it go? how in the world can they possibly not have $20 left? it does not sound sincere. and when people ask them where these thousands of dollars are going, they get vague answers about “hundreds of dollars to doordash” and then they get cursed out.
That’s rule one of this community. How exactly do we “hold each other accountable” if not by calling into question the sincerity of long-time users who have received thousands of dollars from this comm and still come back asking for more?
edit: and just to add, part of the reason im invested is I have given OP money. On multiple occasions. Not small amounts of it either. Hours of my life, spent working. I have absolutely no problem “extending a helping hand.” It sucks to see that OP would rather use that money for drugs than to shower. I know that that’s what addiction is like, and I know it’s not so much a conscious choice as a compulsion. But more money isn’t going to help with that. OP has to fundamentally change the way they are approaching life and the money that they are given before giving them money is going to help anything.
11 days ago, OP had over $1000. now OP is asking for $20 to buy food. what happened to the $1000? where did it go? how in the world can they possibly not have $20 left? it does not sound sincere. and when people ask them where these thousands of dollars are going, they get vague answers about “hundreds of dollars to doordash” and then they get cursed out.
ghoul.
enabler.