Went to a beach with some friends and wasn’t able to wash my feet off before getting in the car. The car had rubber mats and I just had to hover my feet above it but even that was miserable. I don’t remember being so bothered by textures as a kid, it often feels like that symptom has gotten so much worse. The car ride was only 10 ish minutes but it felt like forever and I had to hold back tears for a good portion of it.
Now I am isolating myself from everyone and my girlfriend is bringing me food from the kitchen. Everyone other than my girlfriend thinks I have a headache. Idk what I’d do without her. The sourdough toast and stardew valley are making me feel better as well.
Idk how to end this I just needed to get it out yk?
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Actually though 😭
I quoted this exact line to my gf after arriving at the beach
I quote it everytime I talk about the beach
omfg this is so funny
Venting is a valid process, buddy. Thank your girlfriend and do something special for her if you can, someone that understands you like that is special. Enjoy the toast and Stardew Valley!
Thank you and I will probably make her a nice dinner when we get home
Great idea!
I can’t stand sand on my feet, never liked it. I don’t like sand… Literally quote Anakin sand meme for real lol I have different texture issues with clothing and various other things, along with misophonia and light sensitivity so right across the board issues… I’m glad your girlfriend is taking care of you, hope you feel better soon, have fun with Stardew
Just got a fish pond 😎 its fall year 1 and I am very close to completing the community center
Oh nice, progressing well c:
I,ve recently noticed that i get so much more conscious of bad textures (and other things) when my mental health is real low (stressed to the gills or something) ive recently had to ask my partner to stop touching me after their hands felt uncomfortable on my skin, and it feels like shit.
but dont beat yourself up over it, i hope you can at least laugh about it with your partner soon. Im glad theyre looking after you.
Fuck the beach
Fuck the beach
Fucking the beach will only get sand in even more uncomfortable places. I would not recommend it.
I’d pay someone to do it.
Fuck beaches, get money.
Disregard coastlines, acquire currency
I also find it helpful (with friends and people i trust) to just say when I’m struggling with something that feels silly, its not always easy to do, but even a lighthearted ‘hey gang im about to say the most autistic thing ever, but i need a different spoon’
😅
I normally would but I am with my girlfriends extended family who I just fucking know would infantilize me if they knew I was on the spectrum so I don’t feel comfortable bringing it up
Totally understandable, my condolences, I bet your parter appreciates you making the effort to be there
I dealt with a lot of family events in my past with alcoholism, so you just having some downtime is pretty admirable imo
Lol, my girlfriends stepmom has been sneaking me weed here and there. Very cool of her, typically though some alone time, games, and snacks is enough
thank you for this post, I need to be more like your girlfriend with supporting my partner’s struggle with misophonia
Do your best comrade, it isn’t always easy. My gf is incredibly understanding but it still gets in the way of things and can be frustrating for her. Help your partner but don’t deny your own emotions even if it means dealing with them in private for their sake. I say this speaking from personal experience, your frustration is valid and shouldn’t be shoved down for too long. Best of luck o7
Hope this doesn’t seem preachy :P
Quick solution: always bring a bottle of water with you when going to the beach. For your feet. And if you don’t have one near, find someone that has any empty bottle and fill it will water, even from the sea.
Can I ask why you didn’t just brush off your feet? It takes a couple minutes and you can do it in the car. God gave man vacuum cleaners specifically for cleaning sand out of cars.
Understandable response but it was because my feet were still wet and the sand was also all over the floor where I would have put my feet. Brushing them off wouldn’t get all the sand
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Its possible, I was filled with panic and not exactly thinking straight. I chose a path of action and stuck with it I suppose.
I must say though I think you aren’t getting how overstimulated by this sand I was. I wasn’t upset other people weren’t having my problem, in that moment other people didn’t exist to me. I was much to focused on not crying
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Oh god I used to have a nightmare of a stutter as a child and I feel your pain. I used to just stop speaking when I could feel myself about to stutter. Thankfully it was a physical impairment that I have mostly fixed but it still slips out
I’d love to continue this conversation but I am being censored by the mods here while my abuser is left alone. Wonder what that’s about.
Tbh you were being a bit of prick but I chose to ignore it out of the assumption that you simply didn’t experience a similar struggle as me
I also just dont enjoy being hostile
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