• Crackhappy@lemmy.world
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    3 months ago

    As a dad to four kids, skin to skin is absolutely essential to a life long bond and making your children feel comfortable and loved. Fuck this sexist bullshit.

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      3 months ago

      Yep, dad to three kids. I can’t imagine not having newborn snuggles. In many ways it is 100% beneficial for the baby. When babies snuggle close to a chest, it is often a signal to eat. Sometimes they can get frustrated when mom does it 1) when they don’t want to eat but are being smooshed into a boob that smells like breast milk or 2) when they want to eat but mom doesn’t want to or can’t feed at that moment. Snuggling with dad or a second caregiver is a great alternative.

      The most peaceful sleep my kids tend to have is after being fed then baked nicely under a blanket on my warm chest.

      Dad’s deserve bonding time too

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      3 months ago

      Started a new job, but 4 days before my wife got flown to our area’s leading hospital due to complications with the pregnancy. So day 4 rolls around and I’m literally ~5000ft underground, no cell signal, get back to surface and check phone ASAP. 4th child,1st daughter, born 3 months premature hours earlier. First chance I got I drove the 8 hours to see them and within minutes of arriving it was skin on skin with this smolly. She was heckin early but healthy. Every opportunity I got, I’d drive down for snugs. It was around her OG expected due date before we could bring her home. Almost 2 years later and we’re besties.