It’s obvious and you would be deluded into thinking everyone you interact with likes you.

But how do you feel it?

Context: I’m a course instructor and I get direct reviews on my lessons and around 95% of feedback is positive to very positive.

There’s less than 5% of my reviews that have real negative and non-constructive comments. Things like accusations of being incompetent or unprepared or full of shit, etc. They mention times I had technical difficulties or made a mistake (like giving an incorrect response)

Just by the numbers alone this is a very small minority overall. Yet these comments stick in my head and make me doubt my abilities.

So what are your strategies or ways you drown out this stuff?

  • Mothra
    13·
    3 months ago

    I remember I also don’t like a lot of people and that’s it

    • Iapar@feddit.org
      1·
      3 months ago

      Jupp same here.

      I just care about it if it has a real negative consequence. Like your boss won’t promote you. Otherwise it doesn’t matter. Not. One. Bit.

      • PerogiBoi@lemmy.caOP
        1·
        3 months ago

        That’s the thing, if my reviews aren’t stellar then there’s a good chance I don’t get renewed