I live in an area where taking public transport to get food adds between 2 and 3 hours to get to the nearest shops. I avoid shopping on the weekend. There’s a bulk food order that goes out on Friday or Saturday night but I can’t imagine what I’ll feel like eating on the following Monday, let alone Wednesday. Sometimes I’ll do bulk food prep and by the time I’ve finished preparing the food I’m so disgusted by the idea of food (especially that food) that I don’t eat it, which is also the case if I’ve eaten the same meal multiple times in a row. I apparently will just wait out the clock (food goes off) instead of eating food I don’t want to. I don’t like pasta (again, the main thing motivating me to eat pasta is the threat of someone yelling at me, hunger alone isn’t enough).
Uber eats and taking ubers to go shopping is expensive. The freezer is full because there’s five people living entirely separate lives in the household.
idk what I’m supposed to be doing. It’s hard to eat at all even if I wasn’t trying to be healthy, meat reduction etc.
I recently got a full time job after about a decade of no employment, so I pretty much don’t have energy on weekdays either.
Just some random ideas, in no particular order:
Buy dried garlic granules and dried onion (sliced or powder) in a large quantity, use this to cut down on food prep but also to reduce shopping weight/volume. (2 tablespoons of dried onion = 1 fresh onion, ¼ teaspoon of granulated garlic powder = 1 clove)
Get a pressure cooker to cut down on cooking times
Look up dump casserole dishes and use a slow cooker so that you can prep something in the morning, forget about it, and then have a tasty dish that feels new to you in the evening
Look up sheet pan meals
Find what veg you prefer and start building a repertoire of dishses around those vegetables. For example, maybe roasted capsicum/peppers, pumpkin, potato, onion, and tomato are something that you enjoy. If you do meat, you could also roast something like chicken or lamb alongside this. Then use those ingredients as your base for making different meals for the next few days - salad, pizza, stew, wraps etc.
Consider alternatives to pasta like couscous
Get good at making soup - it’s cheap, healthy, relatively easy and flexible. Start with something like minestrone then branch out when you are feeling comfortable with it. Remember to branch out into non-European soups like laksa, miso soup, ramen etc. because there is so much on offer outside of western cuisine.
Try to break out of the expectations of what cooking “should” be like. One of my favourite things to eat is steamed vegetables. I’ll put a side of protein with it so that it’s a balanced meal but often I’m happiest with a plate or bowl full of steamed veg. There’s no shame in eating something like that as often as you like and it doesn’t have to be anything more than just palatable fuel for your body.
On a similar note, try to find those dishes that you could eat every day for the rest of your life without getting sick of it. For me, that’s dal and rice. If I know that then I can use this dish in my weekly rotation and it can be my go-to. (Extra points for a dish like dal and rice that doesn’t require any fresh ingredients because it’s perfect for when the fridge is empty and the vegetables have gone bad but I’m not going shopping for the next couple of days.)
Maybe see if one of your housemates or friends would be willing to give you a lift when they go shopping? It might help ease the burden.
Get a little bit creative - if you make up a Thai curry but set aside the addition of curry paste, you will be able to fry up one type of curry paste in a little bit of coconut cream or oil and then incorporate that into your base of veggies+protein in coconut milk, thus completing the dish to make one type of Thai curry. The next day you can do the same with a different colour of curry paste. It won’t be massively different but having some variation is probably going to make it more enjoyable for you. Or you could run two pans during cooking and divide each of ingredients out so that you can make two curries side by side simultaneously.
Start having smoothies or protein shakes as in-between meals. It doesn’t have to be some big production, it just needs to be palatable enough to fill you up so you can make the distance between breakfast and dinner.
Lentils are a happy midway point between canned beans and dried - they are fairly quick to cook, they are much cheaper and lighter than canned options, and you aren’t going to need to muck around with overnight soaking or simmering for hours on end like you would with dried beans.
I actually have a pretty diverse portfolio of meals. It’st mostly actually getting the food and then storing it in a house with very little spare storage space.
Unfortunately, almost everyone in the household with a car also recently got a full time job (coincidentally) and has no energy. Everyone else is about 20-30 km away (big city with a rental crisis)
Also, I currently have the flu and don’t want to be around the kitchen/other people much. I will have to today to get medication, which I’m going to uber.