• Diva (she/her)@lemmy.ml
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    17 hours ago

    If bigoted language is common in the spaces you frequent that says a lot about what your lived experience has been.

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        16 hours ago

        It won’t drive me to the right exactly,

        I get the feeling that you’re already there, you just prefer a different aesthetic from the red hats.

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                15 hours ago

                Usually when it’s pointed out to me that I’m reacting defensively I take a moment to think about why that is, maybe you should do the same.

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                    14 hours ago

                    Commits seppuku like a REAL leftist would be required to do.

                    You could just not be weird about taking criticism from marginalized people, I think that’s the ask.

                    pretending to not understand common expressions

                    I’m actually not great with English idioms (ESL girlie), could you explain what this meant for me?