That’s it. Our instance requires us to stop responding if you explicitly ask us to. It’s right here buried in our Code of Conduct
Any discussions may be opted out of by disengaging.
In the past, this rule has only applied to the specific user you say it to. I’d like to suggest going forward that if someone on another instance uses it, we treat it as applying to all of us.
Unfortunately this rule wasn’t communicated clearly before, so I’m making this post for visibility.
Edit: As the comments clarify, this has to be done in good faith, typically just a one word “disengage” comment. If you add more stuff to the discussion and then say “disengage” at the end, you’re not disengaging, it’s a way to put a stop to a toxic argument not to get the last word in.
comments get removed & people have been banned for pursuing an argument after one user has ‘disengaged’. you’ve really never seen this? it is in the rules, and i think there was even a clarification at a later date regarding people who’d say ‘disengage’ but continue the argument for the last word.
i guess it’s fortunate you’ve never been in a shit-flinging hostile enough it’s been needed but this is by no means a new rule or one that’s gone unused/appreciated
I’ve seen it, I just thought they were being removed for being jerks. I didn’t realize it was a formal rule. I honestly thought the mods were mostly just going on a general “Don’t be an asshole” standard.
you’d think, but the sort of people you’d need to enforce this rule on are exactly the kind to go digging in the rules and insist they didn’t break one
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