I dunno, I thought it would be higher. I guess I’m just a slut surrounded by sluts (positive).
What do you think about the number? Does it surprise you? Does it surprise you that it surprises me? Did you expect it to be lower maybe? If so why?
I just find this interesting. No judgement (unless you want that you dirty little gremlin)
Absolutely. I think the takeaway here should be that 9 partners isn’t really a big deal. Like, if you star t having sex between 15-20 and settle down around 25-30 it’s just 1-2 people a year. It dosn’t take much to get there if you’re mentally well, somewhat socially adjusted. And if you’re not comfortable in yourself yet but become that later in life, it’s a high probability that you’ll “catch up” too.
There’s a bunch of cultural and generational aspects of this too of course, but assuming you live in “the west” and go to social gatherings and you’re not a nazi, sex-pest or expecting “porn sex” it shouldn’t be a problem. Remember that the bar is incredibly low at this point, at least for men. Like, if you’re in your 30s, brush your own teeth, wash your ass with soap, you’re basically above average.
Stop repeating this shit. “Bad people are fucking. If you aren’t, it must be because you’re worse than the bad people,” is just virgin shaming.