I don’t think I’m fat and ugly but I did start putting out mad lesbian energy (I’m queer but not strictly into any one gender) and men now just think I won’t be into them either way so they just talk to me like a human. To think of all the friendships I lost to shitty guys in my 20s when I could’ve just said I was gay the whole time…
if you lost the friendships because you aren’t gay then they weren’t going to be any good. that’s not losing friendships that’s you being neo dodging all the bullshit coming your way
I don’t think I’m fat and ugly but I did start putting out mad lesbian energy (I’m queer but not strictly into any one gender) and men now just think I won’t be into them either way so they just talk to me like a human. To think of all the friendships I lost to shitty guys in my 20s when I could’ve just said I was gay the whole time…
if you lost the friendships because you aren’t gay then they weren’t going to be any good. that’s not losing friendships that’s you being neo dodging all the bullshit coming your way