Wrote a comment here but felt like making this a whole post would be good.

I see it a lot here that people mock pol-face dudes and saying they’ve never seen a woman naked and that’s why they’re mad lmao

But by saying things like that, we’re actively supporting the idea that in order to be worth something (especially as a man), you need to get laid and if you don’t, you’re a loser.

This is the reason incels and pol-face dudes are as hateful as they are. They can’t get laid and for that, society mocks them, repeatedly, to no end. It’s shameful. I lost my virginity rather late and it weighed heavily on me for a long time, and had I been around different people I could’ve easily gone down the wrong end, I think.

Basically: Stop using “virgin” as an insult, you’re perpetuating an insanely toxic aspect of our culture. It doesn’t matter whether or not you fuck. Being a virgin doesn’t make you any less valuable.

Also I have no idea what community to put this in wtf