• HubertManne@kbin.social
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    ok. you have to understand there was cross dressing for a long time. so it gets back to is cross dressing trans or whatnot and maybe in some cases but not in others. So if someone identifies as the opposite gender of their sex but does not emulate the gender in any way it sorta becomes moot. Its like just in their heart.

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        stop? that was the first mention and if you had any nuance you would see that what im saying is if a person is trans and takes no action to emulate their prefered gender then are they trans. Basically what is trans then. Can you define simply and succinctly.

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          Fucking Liar. You gonna pretend this isn’t you?

          I mean this gets complicated. Is cross dressing trans? Because cross dressers doesn’t necessarily identify as another sex. Where does an effiminate male stand or a tomboy? What does someone get labled if they identify but don’t otherwise want to take the trappings? https://lemm.ee/comment/3521119

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          But what made the knight intersex? The clothing? https://lemm.ee/comment/3521575

          Which makes your comment to me the third time you’ve implied gender is about the clothing. I’m looking at all the other fucked up things you’ve said in this thread, and I’m flagging every questionable thing. FUCK. OFF.

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            Thats you man. This is a conversation. With several people. Not everything is an absolute. I have given a definition of trans several times as I understand it but you specifically avoided it. I honestly get suspicious of folks like yourself. Your offended by any conversation around trans and treat trans like some sacred cow or like electrolytes from idiocracy. You easily start throwing insults around and it makes me feel like your a shill. Hey I will jump into conversations and be all over the place and treat everything as offensive and purposefully take things out of context as absolutes. This way people will associate this type of behavior as being what trans folks are like. Maybe im wrong but I am conversing myself in good faith and as honestly as I know how. Im going to support human rights which includes peoples rights to be who they want to be and that will be regardless of the experience I have on the web around topics like this. So hey be mad at me or whatever and flag away but im not going to flag yours. Even though you are insulting and swearing at me. Mainly because I moderate my stuff by blocking not reporting. Although I will not block you either as I do feel you are a real person atm despite my suspicions.

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              This way people will associate this type of behavior as being what trans folks are like

              and there we are. We have arrived at the point where transgender people are expected treat you nicely, even when you insult them, and badly explain their existence to them. Take the downvotes as a hint, you are not conversing in good faith and everyone sees it. Signed, the shill for Big Trans apparently hahahah wtf dude

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                I have not insulted you or anybody even once. Not a single swear. Yet you specifically insulted me with swears several times. You again do not put your definition in so im leaning more and more shill. You want to just push being slighted and some sort of general umbridge without any meaningful dialogue. Oh and I don’t think you are a shill for big trans. I think you are a shill for anti trans. A false flag type of thing. Make people think trans folks are like you because you are not protraying yourself well.

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                  You don’t get to tell people when they feel insulted. You also don’t get to tell trans people what being trans is. In three separate comments you associate crossdressing with trans and intersex existences. But I throw a few f bombs and somehow thats worse?? get the fuck outta here hahahahah

                  Yeah, the trans person is a shill for anti-trans because they dont want some numbnut pushing anti-trans terf rhetoric. Totally makes sense.

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                    Well it helps if folks will share what they think trans is if you want others to have a definition like yours. As far as I know the trans from trans comes from things like transvestite and transition. Again if you look at the whole conversations you will see I responded to other comments that brought stuff up. So some people want to talk about a history of trans and put in things about intersex. I questioned those. It can’t be part of the history yet be insulting to trans people. Its either a part or its not. and im not saying it is a part or its not. I was just conversing around the topic. You really need to take full things in rather than just focus on particular words or phrases you don’t like. And yes I know you don’t. you can do whatever you like and feel anyway you like, but I wish you would.