The last few months have been absolute hell because of this, me and my partner are somehow the only non cishet people at this whole thing despite it having like 300 guests. This is also right after I started estrogen and it’s been nonstop “this is the groom’s brother” bs. To be fair I’ve not told anyone but it still feels shitty. We’ve basically been forced back into the closet for the last like 6 months.
On top of this, they’ve been giving almost no info about plans to our family, everything is by the seat of our pants which is doubly bad because it’s a Sikh wedding and our side is almost entirely made up of wasps so people really don’t know what they’re doing.
It’s the last event today and I feel like I’m gonna tear off my skin.
edit: wanted to add, I love my new sister-in-law, she’s lovely, but if I have to hear them talk about fucking harry potter again and try to get me to see the cursed child I’m gonna scream lol.
I was trying to say “we are all huge weebs on this blessed day”
…I’m not.
But, err, thanks for the levity, I guess.
Seriously though, can we exchange siblings?
Trust me, you don’t want my brother either. He isn’t a weeb, but he is a reactionary who says a lot of patently offensive shit.
My brother does the seig heil to offend me.
It sucks.
How old is he?
In his early twenties.
[deep sigh]