like, wtf? good for them

    • davi [he/him]@hexbear.netEnglish
      23·
      1 year ago

      i was a FOOL who wanted “to be valued for my brains not my looks” when it doesn’t matter what you do or how you dress or talk. you will only be valued for your looks first and formost

      are you me? lol

      no, you’re not because it seems you have the option. lol

        • davi [he/him]@hexbear.netEnglish
          18·
          1 year ago

          for modeling or acting maybe; but there’s many other ways to cash in on good looks; emcee, host, in person sales, public relations, most management positions (ie any position where people have to interact with you beyond introduction and goodbyes) comes to mind.

            • HexbearGPT [comrade/them]@hexbear.netEnglish
              9·
              1 year ago

              better than people having never bothered to be nice to you ever…

              anyways, the medical sales reps i was working for last night were all the “beautiful people” and make bank because of it. you could do that.

            • kristina [she/her]@hexbear.netEnglish
              2·
              1 year ago

              yea I’m so paranoid about being stalked after finding dudes following or harassing me at the grocery store like 4 times. Actually now that I think of it it’s more like 10 timesscrem-a People really underestimate how much being prettyish can put a target on your back, my life has been a nightmare and I have brutal PTSD from bad stuff happening to me constantly from creeps.

              I drag my bf everywhere now, which is like threatening the whole store with an atom bomb. I literally feel in danger at all times without him