• ickplant@lemmy.worldOP
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    11 months ago

    To be fair, he’s been into Tolkien since adolescence and is really excited to share. It’s just… intense.

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        11 months ago

        One day I’ll get to the books so I don’t have to ask for his help every time there is a book vs movie meme, lol.

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          11 months ago

          There is a fun podcast called Drunk History of Middle Earth that is essentially this dynamic the whole time - a husband/wife duo where the guy is trying to teach her about Tolkien. She’s genuinely open to it, so it’s probably less annoying than some other instances of that pattern. Aside from the hearing new perspectives on the lore, it’s interesting to vicariously experience the stories for the first time again.

          Also I love their accents, and how they sometimes expose their personal lives to the world and talk through stuff as a couple - it’s very endearing

          Edit to add: there are no ads! It’s so refreshing

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          11 months ago

          This will only lead to you eventually reading the Silmarillion, and putting your husband in his place with even more obscure Tolkien trivia.

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      11 months ago

      It can be hard to accept that something you’re really into just isn’t interesting to your spouse, but I think it’s important to do so.

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      11 months ago

      I had a friend like that with every comedy movie he liked. He’d just stare at you with a goofy grin prior to every part he thought was funny. He’d look over, grinning, just waiting to see your reaction. He’s a great guy, it just made it real uncomfortable to watch a movie with him.

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        11 months ago

        Also had a friend like this and it made it quite annoying to watch anything with him. He later got a diagnosed on the autism spectrum so that probably explains the tendency to do this