(sorry if this is the wrong community)
Mostly I keep to myself online, but I decide to take ONE photo of myself for femboy friday; Groomers and Chasers are already in my DMs asking for degrading shit and NSFW things. Every single goddamn thing in the reddit community is sexualized: Gay black men on “shitposting” subs, trans, non-binary and femboy folks on 196, 196 offshoots, and in general, women in most mainstream communities and anything involving pictures…
Complete fetishization of human beings without regard, and what really pisses me off is I fell for a groomer (now blocked,) and it was just a really fucked up past two hours 😰 (I won’t go into detail because I am really grossed out and ashamed and feel dirty)
I just want to feel comfortable, have affirmation for who I am, not be lonely, or FUCKING GROOMED!🤬 End of rant I guess… How could we fucking kill this type of culture?😡
I presume you’re young, since you talk about being groomed. I hate this culture just as much as you do. To be completely honest, I may be MORE exposed to it because I work at a sex shop. Since I pass except for key features that chasers like, the presumption is that I’m a sex object.
I don’t even give them the time of day, and I think that helps. I’m willing to do sex work and the like, but not if the first two things you say to me are “can I fuck you though” and when I say no “can I suck your dick”. I am a person, and a woman, and I deserve respect before you treat me like meat.
Find a place that has more women on average. I have found they will give you respect men would never, including gender affirmation. I worked with a pretty conservative but hangs out with the gays boomer lady and she had no issues gendering me properly and was very protective of me even though I “have man strength” 😭
Tbh I think you just have to not post on places that chasers will troll, like femboy subs on Reddit. Reddit is a shithole, and you might do better to find a heavily moderated discord.
I’m sorry you’re also experiencing this. I know that it makes me feel like an object in a sickening and unenjoyable way.
imo this is because the porn community on reddit is massive. everybody posting there is fresh off cranking themselves, in the middle of cranking themselves, about to crank themselves, or not cranking themselves but posting with one hand in their pants. the vibe is absolutely fucked. we did the right thing here by suppressing hornyposting.
I remember some innocuous post from a grandpa of him doing something with his grandson that was very wholesome. He was also one of those porn sub comment guys and his history was filled with it.
I don’t understand the desire to have porn on forum sites. Like. Reddit is not a good medium for porn. I do not want to have a discussion about porn in the comments.
Reddit: inspired by pornhub comment sections
I’ve figured an imageboard would be far better for porn. What’s the point of having comments for your porn lmao
I was about to post a meme in these comments related to the image and didn’t read what the post was about until I saw a multiparagraph comment and took a second look. My condolences comrade.
Sorry this happened to you, comrade. Some people are just fucking incapable of treating what they consider “the other” as human beings.
How could we fucking kill this type of culture?
I’m so glad you asked! The answer is to kill the people who perpetuate it. Brutally and without remorse.
