• Dirt_Owl [comrade/them, they/them]@hexbear.net
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    Women be saying for decades “I don’t care about looks or money I just want to date a decent human being who shares my interests and ideals.”

    And men be like “Nah but what do you really mean.”

    Like holy shit maybe listen to what women say instead of insisting they’re all liars. People don’t like being assumed liars for a start so maybe that has something to do with why these fucks can’t get a gf.

    So many sexist motherfuckers trying to avoid the obvious answer that women won’t date them because they’re sexist or have niche interests that make them incompatible.

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      I know a guy like this. He doesn’t think he’s some alpha male, but he thinks they’re all liars, liberal, want to be disrespected, and have a child-like mind. He tells me that he constantly lies about his views and say whatever to get him closer to getting laid.

      I don’t think he’s bad looking. He works out, has money, decently tall, and extroverted.

      He hasn’t had a successful relationship in a while, if any at all lol. Every time I talk to him he’s complaining and getting angry about dates failing. Now, some of the girls are indeed assholes. But, I feel like when you’re not hideous, proudly admit these mindsets, and every date turns into a disaster, then maybe it’s time to reevaluate.

      For context, I’m not exactly slaying out there, but he keeps asking me if “these bitches are stuck up” or “everything become PC after third wave feminism.” I’ve never encountered these types of people outside of twitter screenshots. Even the feminists I know will casually joke about inappropriate, traditionally “politically incorrect” stuff because they don’t think I’m suspicious

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        He tells me that he constantly lies about his views and says whatever to get him closer to getting laid.

        The thing that these guys don’t seem to understand is that women can usually tell when these guys are putting on an act or lying to get something. He’s probably putting out a million red flags lol

        Women have had to become human lie detectors, but for some reason, it’s women who are painted as liars or manipulators. Crazy world.

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        left-leaning

        they want to be disrespected and have a child-like mind

        Pick one. Most women that fall into the latter category are CHUDs.

        Constantly lies about his views

        Why? Right-wing beliefs are the most fashionable of all ideologies. It may all be completely idiotic, but people think it’s cool to subscribe to its thought-process. Like, I’m the one who has to constantly hide my power level to make sure I don’t end up completely isolated from others.

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          Some conservative views are popular accepted, like monogamy and marriage, but that’s small ‘c’ conservative. He’s like Joe Rogan/Jordan Peterson/GOP type of conservatism.

          Conservatives have always complained about dating in urban areas because the truth is women aren’t attracted to dudes who think they know about female bodies from reading tweets, or think crypto will change the universe. So they try to lie about what they believe and realize being insincere is easily detectable

    • The_Jewish_Cuban [he/him]@hexbear.net
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      I don’t get dates because I’m a terminally online communist

      You don’t get dates because you’re a sexist pig who’s terminally online.

      We’re not the same