If you thought you were a true ally, maybe it’s time for some introspection.

  • cumwaffle [she/her]@hexbear.net
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    4 years ago

    that’s literally what everyone is talking about here in the comments rn

    calling someone transphobic because they don’t want to date someone with genitals they’re not attracted to is idiotic as fuck and makes us look like lunatics, it’s not “preference”, it’s sexuality and it’s fixed

    yes there’s straight men who are still attracted to women if they have a penis but that’s not the case for most

    • SupBitchesHoesNSluts [none/use name]@hexbear.net
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      4 years ago

      That’s a different argument and I agree with that. Some people like dick and can’t stand pussy others see it the other way around. I believe what OP is referring to is simply taking into account could you date a trans person if they fit every other standard you have, in which case it’s probably transphobic to say no to.

      • cumwaffle [she/her]@hexbear.net
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        4 years ago

        in a case like that yea i would agree with it being transphobic

        i just seriously hate the opinion that genitalia is just a “preference”, i feel like it’s basically like a woke version of “being gay is a choice” and it makes me uncomfortable as fuck