khizuo [ze/zir]

ze/zir pronouns.

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    My dad has already expressed discontent that I’m “still in the same place I was a few years ago”

    Let me guess, your parents are the type to verbally (or maybe non-verbally) indicate to you just how nice, just how patient, just how understanding they’re being, and that there are worse parents out there who wouldn’t put up with all this! So you should be grateful to them, and not express any discontent because they’re already being so nice — and they could be much worse, you know?

    … I apologize for projecting. But that just sounded so similar to what my parents say, I kind of couldn’t help it. Maybe your parents aren’t like this, idk; but what your dad says immediately sets me on edge because it’s classic ableist behavior.