• girlfreddy@lemmy.ca
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    9 months ago

    When someone needs help the onus is on the one who offers help to understand what help is needed.

    If you don’t want to give specific help, don’t offer.

    And no, just because the helper provided incorrect or useless aid doesn’t mean it should be appreciated.